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Here are some suggestions for you to think through as "starting points" for approaching prayer. The suggestions are very brief but hopefully you will be encouraged to follow up and learn more.

Mark 1 : 35

And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he (Jesus) went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed.

Thessalonians 5 : 17-18

Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

Romans 8 : 26-27

Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.

Philippians 4 : 6-7

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Luke 11 : 1-5

And it came to pass, that, as he (Jesus) was praying in a certain place, when he ceased, one of his disciples said unto him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples. And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.

Matthew 7 : 7-11

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. "Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!

Luke 18 : 1-8

Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. He said: "In a certain town there was a judge who neither feared God nor cared about men. And there was a widow in that town who kept coming to him with the plea, 'Grant me justice against my adversary.' "For some time he refused. But finally he said to himself, 'Even though I don't fear God or care about men, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won't eventually wear me out with her coming!' "And the Lord said, "Listen to what the unjust judge says. And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? I tell you, he will see that they get justice, and quickly.

The knowledge that God exists and that through a trust in his son, Jesus Christ, a person can be saved from sin and can go onto eternal life with Him, will change that persons whole perspective. Part of that change will be a need to have a personal relationship with this wonderful God. To communicate with Him. And we can meet that need in prayer.

Certainly, prayer was important to Jesus who specifically took time out to pray (as written in Mark 1:35). Jesus is the perfect example of the way christians should lead their lives and the bible mentions many other times that Jesus took time for prayer (sometimes deliberately going away from others to do so). St. Paul also emphasises the importance of prayer in Thessalonians 5:17-18 where he writes that it is the will of God, in Jesus Christ, that Christians should constantly turn to God in prayer. So why is prayer so good for us?

Phillipians 4:6-7 can be a starting point to understand the benefits of praying. Here Paul says that Christians have nothing to be anxious about because we can go to God in prayer with everything that concerns us. We can bring our requests, along with thanksgiving, to God. Remember, nothing is too little or too big to bring to God in prayer.

In Matthew 7:7-11, Jesus assures us that when we come to God in prayer He will listen (his door is open wide) and that He will give you what you need. Jesus notes that as a parent would do their best for their child, so how much more will God do for you. For he is our heavenly father because of our relationship to Him through our faith in his son Jesus Christ. If we bring our requests to Him he will respond in love.

More than that, Jesus says in Luke 18:1-8 that those who come to God in prayer regularly will be given justice. God will not be slow in looking after you if you come to him in prayer.

It does not say you will always get what you ask for, just as a child will not get everything he asks for from his parent. God, as your heavenly father, will give you what is best for you. Philippians 7:7 mentions one of the most wonderful benefits of prayer; that the peace of God will guard our hearts and minds in Jesus Christ. We can hand ourselves and our concerns into God's hands in prayer, and experience the peace that brings.

Prayer is not only a time time to ask God for help. As noted in the 'How' section of this page (to the right) , we should use prayer for adoration, confession and thanksgiving;

Prayer gives us the opportunity to praise God for who he is and what he has done. The psalms, contained in the bible, are poetic prayers that contain magnificent praises to God that recognise his power, glory, wisdom and mercy. We can gain from reflecting on all God is, was and shall be.

Prayer gives us an opportunity to turn to God and ask forgiveness for the sins we have committed, confessing them and asking forgiveness. When we receive forgiveness, through Jesus in prayer, we can move forward towards eternal life in heaven.

And prayer gives us the opportunity to express our gratefulness to God. In Philippians 7:6-7 Paul states that as we come to God in prayer with our 'petitions', we should do so with thanksgiving. With thanks for all that he has done and will do for us, not least that God has freed us from sin through His son.

When you pray, be ready for God's answer. If you are ready for that answer you may gain more from it, not least because it may be through your own actions that God answers your prayers. The answer will probably not be dramatic; for example you might find a feeling of peace about taking a decision in a certain way that you were confused about before.

The ultimate destination of our lives is heaven or hell. The most important matter in our lives is our relationship with God, through Jesus Christ. That relationship, or lack of relationship, determines our destination. Prayer is an essential element in that relationship, a relationship that brings peace in this world and eternal life in heaven.

Many find prayer more difficult than they expect, and then feel a failure. Don't. The fact that you have turned to God to pray is what matters. The important thing to realise is that you do not need eloquence or intelligence to pray. You can simply come to God and talk to Him. God is not looking for a beautiful set of words, he just wants you to talk to Him. Just take out some time to be with God.

To begin with we should reflect that we could not come to God in prayer without the 'mediation' of Jesus Christ. We fall so far short of what God wants from us that we could not come to God in prayer without fear of condemnation. However, through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross, our trust in Jesus allows us to come to God. Our trust in Jesus enables us to have the relationship with God that allows us to come to Him in prayer.

There is no universal method to prayer. Each of us has a different character and life. Therefore one method will be perfect for one and be useless for another. For example, going for a walk and silently praying about what concerns you is just as good as going to a particular room to pray aloud. It's what suits you.

However, many do find it useful to use a suggested approach and then change it to fit their personal needs.

A popular approach to what to include in your prayers can be remembered by the word; ACTS; Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving and Supplication.

Adoration - start by giving praise and honour to God. The Lord's prayer, which Jesus taught us, starts 'Our father which art in heaven, hallowed by you name' (Luke 11 : 1-5). We are talking to THE creator. God's power and glory are beyond our imagination. He deserves our praise.

Confession - then you can admit all those things that have been wrong in your life and have brought you away from God. A moment when you can come closer to God by asking his forgiveness and turning anew to do what is right.

Thanksgiving - having confessed you can know that, as you believe in His son, Jesus, he has forgiven you. In that knowledge you can thank God for His gift of forgiveness. Thank God also for all the things he has provided to you and done for others in the world.

Supplication (this is a long word which means 'asking for something') - now you can turn to your concerns, worries, joys and hopes and bring them to God. Just honestly talk to God of you needs and wants, your emotions and concerns. Turn over those things and people you care for, as well as yourself, to God.

ACTS is just one approach to prayer of many. Some use specific prayers such as the Lord's Prayer or the many prayers written over the ages. Some can just turn to God in quiet meditation; dwelling on his greatness and mercy. Many find a list of matters and people to pray for helpful. Find out your way to take that special time to meet God.

So far, this section has just talked on a personal level, but prayer is not only a solo activity. The bible is full of events when Christians came together in public prayer to God. The early church did so often, as recorded in the bible's book of 'Acts'. The prayers of those early believers were heard by God and many miraculous and wonderful things were done.

Fellowship and praying together are a part of the Christian life, and the knowledge that others are praying for you, as you are for them, brings one great reassurance and strength. Enderby parish church's 'church meets' meetings will include a time to pray together for the concerns we have as followers of Jesus Christ, as a community of believers and for the parish and beyond.

There is a degree of discipline in regular prayer, as there is in the struggle to stop your mind wondering off during prayer. However, many have said that regular prayer time can become one of the most special times of the day. Don't feel condemned because you miss prayer for a while or your mind wonders, but do not use that as an excuse not to pray to God again. Time with God in prayer can be a blessing in your life.

Prayer is our principle means of communicating with God.

Prayer is an important element of a living Christian faith.

There is not one specific way to pray. Find the way that suits you most

Jesus made prayer an essential part of his life

The bible assures us that God will answer prayer

Jesus is the 'mediator' that allows us to approach God in prayer

A.C.T.S., as described in the 'How' column, is one approach of many

Part of Christian fellowship is praying together

Prayer is spending time in the presence of the One who loves us more than any other

Easton's Bible Dictionary Definition of Prayer

Prayer is converse with God; the intercourse of the soul with God, not in contemplation or meditation, but in direct address to him. Prayer may be oral or mental, occasional or constant, ejaculatory or formal. It is a "beseeching the Lord" (Ex. 32:11); "pouring out the soul before the Lord" (1 Sam. 1:15); "praying and crying to heaven" (2 Chr. 32:20); "seeking unto God and making supplication" (Job 8:5); "drawing near to God" (Ps. 73:28); "bowing the knees" (Eph. 3:14).
Prayer presupposes a belief in the personality of God, his ability and willingness to hold intercourse with us, his personal control of all things and of all his creatures and all their actions.
Acceptable prayer must be sincere (Heb. 10:22), offered with reverence and godly fear, with a humble sense of our own insignificance as creatures and of our own unworthiness as sinners, with earnest importunity, and with unhesitating submission to the divine will. Prayer must also be offered in the faith that God is, and is the hearer and answerer of prayer, and that he will fulfil his word, "Ask, and ye shall receive" (Matt. 7:7, 8; 21:22; Mark 11:24; John 14:13, 14), and in the name of Christ (16:23, 24; 15:16; Eph. 2:18; 5:20; Col. 3:17; 1 Pet. 2:5).
Prayer is of different kinds, secret (Matt. 6:6); social, as family prayers, and in social worship; and public, in the service of the sanctuary.
Intercessory prayer is enjoined (Num. 6:23; Job 42:8; Isa. 62:6; Ps. 122:6; 1 Tim. 2:1; James 5:14), and there are many instances on record of answers having been given to such prayers, e.g., of Abraham (Gen. 17:18, 20; 18:23-32; 20:7, 17, 18), of Moses for Pharaoh (Ex. 8:12, 13, 30, 31; Ex. 9:33), for the Israelites (Ex. 17:11, 13; 32:11-14, 31-34; Num. 21:7, 8; Deut. 9:18, 19, 25), for Miriam (Num. 12:13), for Aaron (Deut. 9:20), of Samuel (1 Sam. 7:5-12), of Solomon (1 Kings 8; 2 Chr. 6), Elijah (1 Kings 17:20-23), Elisha (2 Kings 4:33-36), Isaiah (2 Kings 19), Jeremiah (42:2-10), Peter (Acts 9:40), the church (12:5-12), Paul (28:8).
No rules are anywhere in Scripture laid down for the manner of prayer or the attitude to be assumed by the suppliant. There is mention made of kneeling in prayer (1 Kings 8:54; 2 Chr. 6:13; Ps. 95:6; Isa. 45:23; Luke 22:41; Acts 7:60; 9:40; Eph. 3:14, etc.); of bowing and falling prostrate (Gen. 24:26, 52; Ex. 4:31; 12:27; Matt. 26:39; Mark 14:35, etc.); of spreading out the hands (1 Kings 8:22, 38, 54; Ps. 28:2; 63:4; 88:9; 1 Tim. 2:8, etc.); and of standing (1 Sam. 1:26; 1 Kings 8:14, 55; 2 Chr. 20:9; Mark 11:25; Luke 18:11, 13).
If we except the "Lord's Prayer" (Matt. 6:9-13), which is, however, rather a model or pattern of prayer than a set prayer to be offered up, we have no special form of prayer for general use given us in Scripture.
Prayer is frequently enjoined in Scripture (Ex. 22:23, 27; 1 Kings 3:5; 2 Chr. 7:14; Ps. 37:4; Isa. 55:6; Joel 2:32; Ezek. 36:37, etc.), and we have very many testimonies that it has been answered (Ps. 3:4; 4:1; 6:8; 18:6; 28:6; 30:2; 34:4; 118:5; James 5:16-18, etc.).
"Abraham's servant prayed to God, and God directed him to the person who should be wife to his master's son and heir (Gen. 24:10-20).
"Jacob prayed to God, and God inclined the heart of his irritated brother, so that they met in peace and friendship (Gen. 32:24-30; 33:1-4).
"Samson prayed to God, and God showed him a well where he quenched his burning thirst, and so lived to judge Israel (Judg. 15:18-20).
"David prayed, and God defeated the counsel of Ahithophel (2 Sam. 15:31; 16:20-23; 17:14-23).
"Daniel prayed, and God enabled him both to tell Nebuchadnezzar his dream and to give the interpretation of it (Dan. 2: 16-23).
"Nehemiah prayed, and God inclined the heart of the king of Persia to grant him leave of absence to visit and rebuild Jerusalem (Neh. 1:11; 2:1-6).
"Esther and Mordecai prayed, and God defeated the purpose of Haman, and saved the Jews from destruction (Esther 4:15-17; 6:7, 8).
"The believers in Jerusalem prayed, and God opened the prison doors and set Peter at liberty, when Herod had resolved upon his death (Acts 12:1-12).
"Paul prayed that the thorn in the flesh might be removed, and his prayer brought a large increase of spiritual strength, while the thorn perhaps remained (2 Cor. 12:7-10).
"Prayer is like the dove that Noah sent forth, which blessed him not only when it returned with an olive-leaf in its mouth, but when it never returned at all.", Robinson's Job.